A New Year
Open a new year
gift of possibilities
with no instructions
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A New Year
Open a new year
gift of possibilities
with no instructions
On the eve of a new year, it seems especially timely to reflect and
consider the wild ride we are on together called life. Mindfulness
teaches us that it is the moments, sometimes hidden within the busyness,
that give our life richness and meaning. Often we project into the
future, as in "when (fill in the blank)
happens, then I will be happy", and new year's resolutions can push us
toward this way of future thinking by negating the present moment.
Consider making 2014 a year of mindful moments, continuing to have
overarching goals, but also honoring the present moment by noticing it
as it unfolds; and not observing your life in the rear view mirror or as
a mirage on the distant horizon."Here is a suggestion from my six-year-old daughter on how to start your TO DO list. Two of days ago, I wanted to teach her how to make a plan for the day so I asked her to bring me a notepad to write down what we would like to accomplish. She jumped quickly and brought a note that said “LOVE” and without even waiting for me to ask her anything, she said: “Mommy, I wrote the first item on the agenda” grinning from happiness. “Isn’t LOVE the most important anyway?”, she added.
As I watched her in awe, I noticed a change in my state of mind. “Yes, dear child, LOVE is the most important”, I said to her and thought to myself … “even if nothing else gets accomplished for the day but we share LOVE with each other the day would be quite successful”. We made a schedule for the day and moved on. Every time we were in disagreement we reminded each other “What was the first item on our Agenda?”
Put LOVE first in your daily/weekly/yearly TO DO list and simply enjoy the benefits it will bring to your life."What incredible insight and what a good suggestion for the first item on the inevitable TO DO list(s) in our lives! How will you measure your precious five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes this year? How about in LOVE.